Why do guys take so long to ask a girl out on a date? 

Yes, here I go again.

 

I feel like I’ve touched on this topic before but once again it’s popped up in to my mind yet again and I am sitting here wondering why are guys so afraid? I get it, rejection is hard but if the girl is clearly in to you then why are you taking so long?

 

Are you like me? Do guys sometimes message you, send you subtle flirty texts, tell you how you guys should, “hang out” but never really follow through. Well, this post is for you and I am here to tell you to LEAVE THESE GUYS ALONE.

 

Sis, stop wasting your time. If a guy was REALLY interested in you then he would have already taken iniative to ask you out on a clear date. I am telling you all of this because this was me. I would feed in to the cute messages guys would send me about hanging out with the hopes that maybe it would turn in to an actual date but it never happened. Guys love attention just as much as we do and getting it from a cute girl just boosts their ego even more. Now if you’re just looking for a good time then go right ahead, text these guys. But if you’re like me and are tired of young men wasting your precious time then move on. Keep it at a strictly friendship level because as soon as you guys start hanging out he’ll start complaing about how he’s in the “frienzone.” Well, because you put yourself there my guy.

 

But I digress.

 

What you don’t want to do is become emotionally invested in a guy that’s not taking the time to pursue you the way you deserve. Men go after what they want and if he truly wanted you then he would tell you straight up that he’s interested in getting to know you on more than a friendship level.

 

Now in the mean time, prepare yourself for when a guy finally does step to you like a real man and asks you out.

 

But I’ll save that part for another post though…

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One thought on “Why do guys take so long to ask a girl out on a date? 

  1. Calvin Gunter says:

    Good post Angelica! In my opinion, sometimes, it’s kind of difficult for us guys to ask a woman out, because sometimes we don’t know or are unsure of what the woman’s mindset is. We can’t be too cocky or too awkward. It has to flow naturally for us to see we and the womeb we pursue are on the same frequency.

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