I missed my anniversary. I had plans for it, kind of. I wanted to bake a cake, eat it in celebration of the past six years. I remember back then when I felt hopeless, unloved, confused, almost every emotion I could feel all at once. I thought that in order to feel happiness I had to attach myself to someone else. It took a lot of lonely nights, a lot of random drives and a hell of a lot of daydreaming that took me out of the reality that I may never fall in love again or even be happy but I don’t think I really knew what happiness was at the time.
Growth is bittersweet. It takes forever but also if you work on it well enough, it’ll be here before you know it. Hopefully some of you reading this have been able to bear witness to this growth whether personally or through this blog. It’s been a journey taking the time to nurture my inner child, to care for her, tell her she’s beautiful and actually believe it. I thank God for listening to me, not only through my prayers but through my cries. For the past six years I’ve been able to be the most vulnerable, the most emotional, the most of myself and that’s why after much consideration, I’ve made this decision to end this blog. Six years is a long time to pour my heart out but considering this growth, I’ve realized I’m not the same version of myself that I was when I began alliamisyours. It will always be a part of me and I guess until I figure out my next steps, most of it will still be here. I want to thank you all for reading, reposting, sharing and encouraging me along this journey. Before I leave you, I want to share some of the lessons that I’ve learned and would have liked to share with my twenty-two year old self right before I started this blog.
Learn to love yourself Because how can you expect anyone else to love you the way you deserve, the way you want?
Try your best to heal It’s definitely not easy, but it’s worth it.
Happiness starts with me I am the object of my own happiness and I have to choose to be happy even when I don’t feel like it. It’s okay to be sad sometimes, but don’t stay there any longer than you have to.
Love doesn’t have to be hard/You’re not hard to love Enough said.
Faith can oftentimes be the only thing you have There have been plenty of times where I felt like giving up and my faith was the only thing I had to hold on to. When life got it’s hardest, I learned to pray for comfort so that God could ease the pain and I held on to that faith that He would and He did.
It’s not much but it’s all I’ve got. I don’t know why things happen the way they do, they just do but I thank God for that. I thank God for every relationship that didn’t work out or happen and I’m looking forward to the joy that lies ahead.
““And now, O Lord, for what do I wait? My hope is in you.”
Psalm 39:7 ESV
ALLIAMISYOURS may be over (for now) but Jesus & Journals will still be up. In the meantime, continue to pray for me as I handle a few more transitions in my life and continue my writing. The first book is on the way!
Thank you,
Angelica.